Hlomla, though, doesn’t reveal much about his private life other than the fact that he’s like a Superdad. Until this morning that is. Hlomla Dandala went to instagram to expose both his cheating wife AND the man who she’s been seeing. According to Hlomla, the pair were caught having s-e-x when Hlomla and Brenda’s kids were in the house as well. Hlomla must be heart broken!