{"id":1085638,"date":"2023-01-06T08:12:07","date_gmt":"2023-01-06T13:12:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bugaluu.com\/news\/emily-ratajkowski-says-she-attracts-the-worst-men-following-split-from-sebastian-bear-mcclard\/1085638\/"},"modified":"2023-01-06T08:12:07","modified_gmt":"2023-01-06T13:12:07","slug":"emily-ratajkowski-says-she-attracts-the-worst-men-following-split-from-sebastian-bear-mcclard","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bugaluu.com\/news\/emily-ratajkowski-says-she-attracts-the-worst-men-following-split-from-sebastian-bear-mcclard\/1085638\/","title":{"rendered":"Emily Ratajkowski Says She Attracts &#8216;the Worst Men&#8217; Following Split from Sebastian Bear-McClard"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"ftpimagefix\" style=\"float:left\"><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/style\/emily-ratajkowski-says-she-attracts-the-worst-men\/\" rel=\"noopener\"><\/a><\/div>\n<figure><figcaption><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><em>Craig Barritt\/Getty <\/em><\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/tag\/emily-ratajkowski\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Emily Ratajkowski<\/a> is airing her grievances about the other sex.<\/p>\n<p>On the latest edition of her <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/high-low-with-emrata\/id1648732468\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>High Low with EmRata<\/em><\/a> podcast, the 31-year-old model shed some light on her recent relationships, since splitting from husband <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/movies\/who-is-sebastian-bear-mcclard-emily-ratajkowski\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Sebastian Bear-McClard<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I feel like I attract the worst men,&#8221; the <em>My Body<\/em> author said. &#8220;Sometimes I&#8217;m like, f\u2014k, because I want a confident man. I don&#8217;t want an overly confident man who has something to prove and is trying to prove it through me. That is not what I want.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Ratajkowski also said the dynamic is something that has contributed to her ambivalent feelings she has towards courtship, four months after filing for divorce from the <em>Uncut Gems<\/em> producer, with whom she shares 22-month-old son Sylvester Apollo.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;That&#8217;s what I hate with dating \u2026 men in particular,&#8221; the <em>Gone Girl<\/em> star said. &#8220;They&#8217;re like, &#8216;OK, yes, you&#8217;re special. You&#8217;ve done it.&#8217; And they love it and love it, and then slowly they get emasculated and don&#8217;t know what to do with those feelings, and then they resent you. They start to tear you down, and then you&#8217;re back to square one.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>She added, &#8220;And it&#8217;s so f\u2014ked up and unfair, because I feel like a lot of men who truly think they want a strong woman actually don&#8217;t know how to handle it and \u2026 what it means for their own identity,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p><strong>RELATED: <\/strong><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/style\/emily-ratajkowski-is-enjoying-freedom-of-being-single-after-sebastian-bear-mcclard-breakup\/\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Emily Ratajkowski Says She&#8217;s &#8216;Enjoying the Freedom&#8217; of Being Single for &#8216;Basically the First Time&#8217;<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/media.zenfs.com\/en\/aol_people_articles_471\/376784f82f6579a13d26ee2fdd9d3aec\" alt=\"Pete Davisdon Emily Ratajkowski\" data-uuid=\"8c518218-a92e-3024-87fa-a64e8ff3efd3\"><figcaption><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><em>Backgrid  <\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Never miss a story \u2014 sign up for <\/em><\/strong><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/x.specialoffers.meredith.com\/ats\/show.aspx?cr=588&amp;fm=241\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>PEOPLE<\/strong><strong><em>&#8216;s free daily newsletter<\/em><\/strong><\/a><strong><em> to stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from juicy celebrity news to compelling human interest stories.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In the wake of her separation from Bear-McClard \u2014 to whom she was married for four years \u2014 the star was briefly <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/movies\/brad-pitt-emily-ratajkowski-spending-time-together-says-source\/\" rel=\"noopener\">linked to Brad Pitt<\/a> and dated <em>Saturday Night Live<\/em> alum <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/style\/pete-davidson-and-emily-ratajkowski-are-going-strong-and-getting-more-serious-says-source\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Pete Davidson<\/a>.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Despite the challenges of dating, Ratajkowski <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/variety.com\/2022\/digital\/news\/emily-ratajkowski-podcast-tiktok-britney-spears-1235399441\/\" rel=\"noopener\">told <em>Variety<\/em><\/a> in October that she was savoring being &#8220;newly single for basically the first time in my life ever.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><strong>RELATED: <\/strong><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/style\/emily-ratajkowski-opens-up-about-her-split-from-husband-sebastian-bear-mcclard\/\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Emily Ratajkowski on Her Split from Husband Sebastian Bear-McClard: &#8216;I Feel All the Emotions&#8217;<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;And I just feel like I&#8217;m kind of enjoying the freedom of not being super-worried about how I&#8217;m being perceived,&#8221; she told the publication.<\/p>\n<p>In addition to her podcast, the star also has found TikTok to be a balm during her life as a singleton, and frequently uses her account to tackle gender-related topics.<\/p>\n<p>She admitted to <em>Variety<\/em> that she gets plenty of criticism for being outspoken about her views.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Women seeking attention is always the classic misogyny hot topic. It&#8217;s really what gets people going, to accuse a woman of seeking attention. Personally, I know that really well,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p>She added, &#8220;So, yeah, I get a lot of hate. But as they say on TikTok: &#8216;The girls who get it, get it.&#8217; That&#8217;s my motto these days.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>From:<a href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/style\/emily-ratajkowski-says-she-attracts-the-worst-men\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Emily Ratajkowski Says She Attracts 'the Worst Men' Following Split from Sebastian Bear-McClard\" rel=\"noopener\">AOL<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Craig Barritt\/Getty Emily Ratajkowski is airing her grievances about the other sex. 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